If you heard a bird, looking at its reflection in a river, say, 'What ugly feathers! Ugh, that beak', your first thought would be, 'Wow! A talking bird!' Then you might wonder why a bird would criticise the feathers that give it flight or the beak that sings such sweet melodies. Are you now preoccupied with 'flaws' which are actually essential parts of what makes you so wonderful?
How are you going to win the lottery without a ticket? As the song in the musical South Pacific so beautifully puts it, 'You've got to have a dream, if you don't have a dream, how you gonna have a dream come true?' It makes it sound so simple! But it takes a bit more than just a dream. It takes definite, decisive action too.